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‘I got divorced after 21 days,’ Kikuyu Gospel artiste on his broken marriage

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A Kenyan  Kikuyu gospel artiste known as Breakdown Ben has narrated how he got divorced after 21 days. Even during his honeymoon, he did not get to enjoy his bride.

It was only later that he discovered that his wife had been pregnant for someone else even before they wedded.

Speaking during an interview on Diaspora TV, Ben said

‘I met my ex-wife in 2008.

Her name was Carol and we dated for an year and during the final stages we were to get tested for HIV and pregnancy but she refused to.

At the time I did not understand why she refused, I got tested and took my tests to the church. My wife to be then did not get tested.’

Breakdown Ben

On our wedding day, I would hold her hands and she would release them, she did not want photos during or wedding.

During the reception she was also not excited but I did not understand why.’

Ben added,

‘The first day of our honeymoon, she said she had a headache, the second day she said she had a stomach ache.

Everyday of the week she had an excuse.

The honeymoon was a whole week but she did not accept to get intimate with me. I pleaded but she refused.

She became so rude, she would ask me to wash or do everything for myself. I knew I had messed up.’

Not only did she become rude but she would become physical.

‘When we went back home I cooked, on the second day I washed our clothes because she still said she was still not OK.

She gave me so many conditions, I even started developing ulcers trying to figure out what had happened to our marriage.’

What Ben did not know is that his marriage was already doomed.

‘One day she told me she was going for a birthday, I asked her to accompany me to church but she said she could not.

She was daring enough to ask if there was anywhere written down that she was supposed to accompany me to church.

I then told her if she went for that party, let her not come back home.

Shen  responded it’s what she had been waiting for.’

It was a year later that Ben learnt the whole truth.

‘After a year, a relative of hers told me I had done something good by dumping her as she was pregnant for someone else.

When she left our home she went and terminated it. That is why she refused to go for testing before the wedding happened.

I told God thanks for saving me.’

By Mpasho


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Lady recounts pain of learning her HIV positive status in front of her new boyfriend

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Being in a new relationship nowadays requires couples to know their status before engaging in sexual orientation. This is a healthy norm due to many diseases that come as a result of sexual intimacy.

Lady says she learnt of her HIV status on her visit to the health facility with her new boyfriend 10 years ago

Irene Waliula (pictured) has been battling with HIV/AIDS for the last 10 years. Photo: Irene Waliaula.
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As the world celebrates HIV and AIDS Day, Irene Waliaula 28, narrated her 10-year journey battling with AIDs, disease that changed her to a toxic person.

Hell broke loose on her when she visited a Nairobi health facility together with her boyfriend to know their HIV status after getting into a new relationship.

She was diagnosed with the dreaded virus and was left heartbroken, dejected and distressed.

On two occasions, the then 18-year-old girl contemplated suicide.

Were it not for the intervention of an AIDS councillor who guided and assisted her to start seeing things positively, Irene said she would have taken her on life along the way since the temptation kept on knocking.

Though the journey has not been easy considering the costs of medication and sustaining a healthy diet, the mother of one said having a positive mind has helped her to overcome a lot of the challenges.

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Lady says she learnt of her HIV status on her visit to the health facility with her new boyfriend 10 years ago

Irene Waliaula. Photo: Irene Waliaula.
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She has been sensitising the society and especially the youth on HIV and AIDS prevention measures through her social media platforms and other avenues including, churches, seminars and town hall meetings.

“When you first contract this disease, you obviously need strong people around you. For my case, I did not have such people around me. It was only my mother who was there for me. Though she was shocked, she had to be strong for me.” She recalled.

Irene said even though she no longer stays with her baby daddy. Her life has really changed because she chose to have people with positive minds around her.

She advised those living with AIDs to always focus on the best thing that life has to offer because after all, everyone deserves to live.

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‘I thought she would marry ‘Jesus’ not a divorcee,’ Pastor Kanyari shades Betty Bayo

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Pastor Victor Kanyari has broken his silence after his ex-wife Gospel singer Betty Bayo got engaged during her 33rd birthday last week on Wednesday.

Sharing the news with her fans on social media, the Eleventh Hour crooner posted a cutout picture of her fiancé on one knee putting the engagement ring on her finger with the caption, ‘Taken’.

Speaking to Word Is, the controversial pastor said he is aware that the mother of his two children got engaged but was shocked to learn that the man she is currently dating is a divorcee.

“I thought she was going to marry ‘Jesus’ after all the hateful things she said about me,” he said.

“He is a man who left his family, a wife and two children somewhere. She did not look for Jesus, tell her to marry a ‘Jesus’ kind of a man so she can surprise us not a man who has been used somewhere.”

Kanyari hopes that his children will be well taken care of.

“I have given my children the best life and I promise to take them to the best schools in America. Now that there is another man in her life, I hope he will be chipping in.”

Betty is now planning for a grand wedding and Pastor Kanyari said he is invited.

“I can’t attend her wedding although I am invited. She should continue with her life.”

“I came before him and at least opened some way for him. He can continue with where I left although there were others before me.”

Asked how well he knows Betty’s new bae, Pastor Kanyari referred to him as a broke man.

“He is from Central Kenya, but can’t compete with my level. He is a hungry man, that is the best way I can describe him. I can buy them lunch only that they have not shown up.”

He continued and said that instead of attending to the wedding, he will offer to pay for their honeymoon.

“Hii ni mbio ya farasi na punda. I do not know why she has rushed things since I did not expect her to be with that kind of a man. I expected a different kind of man. I am cuter…”

On the other side, Kanyari says Betty is still his friend and they call each other.

“She calls me anytime she is in a problem or is stressed. I wish her well and we shall meet at the end of all these.”

Pastor Kanyari says he has no hurry in moving on.

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Word Is reached out to Betty Bayo who asked us to do a congratulatory story first, which we did.

She then declined to speak anything concerning her engagement.

“I am not ready to speak about it now.”

by Mpasho.co.ke


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Rapper Msupa S on US tour, residing in Virginia

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All the Way Up star Sandra ‘Msupa S’ Chebet is in the state of Virginia, United States of America (USA) for a much-needed break after living out an exhilarating, roller-coaster rap career.

The self-styled hip-hop queen, famed for Hello, Utatii and Watajua Hawajui hit featuring award-winning rapper Khaligraph Jones, has since September 2020 treated her fans to a heaven-on-earth glow of life in the East Coast including a tour of Sterling, Loudoun County.

Msupa S [Photo: Instagram @queenmsupas]
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