By Wanja Waweru
According to DNA, a music producer, most guys suffer as a result of paying for their baby mama’s social position under the premise of paying school tuition.
The singer of Maswali ya Polisi claims that there is a noticeable trend in the city where men appear to be sending their children to boujie schools for show-offs, and he directly blames their wives for this.
The rapper alleges he was also duped into sending their daughter to an expensive school for which he struggled to pay school fees, ruining his finances. He claims his baby mother deceived him into doing this.
“I have been talking to many guys lately, and everyone is lamenting on the amount of school fees they are paying. I was once in the same trap.
When my first daughter was young, I found myself paying around Sh100,000 to send her to a nursery school. I did have trouble paying the charge, which is one of the reasons my financial situation rapidly deteriorated.
I came to the realization that I was actually supporting her mother’s social status rather than the child’s necessities by paying school fees instead.
According to DNA, most males have been conned into enrolling their children in exclusive schools by their baby mamas or partners so they can always brag about it.
“You know ladies love all the good things. There is nothing bad with that, but you, as a man have to ask yourself questions.
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Learning from his own experience, DNA wonders why he had to take a school fees loan when there were other good options he would have afforded without loans.
“When I look at it now, I caved in to unnecessarily societal pressure that hurt me badly financially. I regret taking those I should have been real with myself as a man and take the kid to a school I could afford.
When I started asking myself if I was paying for my child’s fee or her mother’s social status, the decision became much easier.”
DNA insists women will always want to show off their standards and a majority use men to achieve that.
