Relationship problems, according to Kenyan musician David Mathenge aka Nameless, nearly led to the end of his romance with Wahu.
“There was a time I moved out at some point, it wasn’t as dramatic but it came at a time we could focus on things. It forced us to focus on our issues. It helped us focus on ourselves. We didn’t define it as a separation, it was just a time-out.”
Adding: “In our 30s there was a lot of pull and back, there were so many things that were going on. What I have done because of those struggles is have people I talk to a lot. They include my psychologist, life coach, my siblings, etc.”
Nameless says self-care is important adding that it shouldn’t be taken for selfishness.
“The more you understand yourself, the more you will be good to others.T o improve yourself you cannot do it yourself. We realized that mindset is very important, You have to reinvent yourself, you can’t be the same utabore mtu.”