It’s been about a year plus since Pascal Tokodi and wife, Grace Ekirapa walked down in a low key wedding; that only saw close friends and family attend.
Word has it that the wedding was so low key that for a minute bloggers and fans thought it was a music video shoot. Smart. However with time, we came to learn that the handsome Pascal Tokodi had found a wife in young Grace Ekirapa; and truth is, these two make a stunning couple.
Well, having been married for almost 30 months; there are a few fans who have been demanding kids from the couple not knowing that their demands have been hurting the couple.
This needs to Stop
This was confirmed by Ekirapa who recently shared a long detailed post telling off womb watchers; who have apparently been accusing her of being infertile among other things.
In a detailed long post, Mrs Tokodi went on to insist that it isn’t okay to pry into people’s business; and advised fans to learn the importance of minding their own business.
From her post, clearly Grace Ekirapa owes nobody an explanation since she isn’t a baby-making machines; but hopefully one day she will be a mum.
Grace Ekirapa’s post
LONG POST ALERT!!!
Allow me to say this because it’s been in my heart and it gets heavy by day. When two people get married, they plan and work towards their plans together. Everything flows beautifully and those who want children, work hard towards making them and some even swing from chandeliers while at it. Others decide to pursue their careers first then plan for children later, others decide to adopt children instead of having them biologically, in short, these decisions are made by the people who got married.
I would like to talk about people who desire children and work so hard at it but face challenges. Others get doctors reports that they can never have children, some get pregnant and lose the baby before it gets to term, Some carry the baby to term but lose them during birth, some give birth but lose their lives in the process and never get to be present to raise the baby. What I am saying is, nobody really has control over how life will come to this world or how it will leave. God gives and God takes. It is unfair for an outsider to impose on a married couples life and even raise insults about their life and why they are not bringing children into the world. My heart breaks because there are soo many people out here who are quick to hurt others with their words by raising demands, insults and accusations before knowing what the other person is going through.
She went on to conclude by saying;
My parents raise me knowing that I should never be mean to somebody just because I have something they don’t have because you know what, It is God who has the power to give and He also has the power to take. Be careful about being mean to people who don’t have what you have because it will be unfortunate if you lost what you have. Remember, it is God who gives Children, Women and men can only try. May Gods peace be with everybody who has been through a painful experience or experiences and May He restore your Joy and turn your mourning into Dancing